Jake Paul, the controversial internet personality turned professional boxer, has lived much of his life in the public eye, and his romantic relationships have been no exception. From early YouTube showmances to high-profile engagements, his love life has consistently captured headlines, evolving alongside his career from Vine star to boxing sensation. His journey through various relationships offers a glimpse into the complexities of dating under intense media scrutiny.
One of Jake Paul's earliest public associations was with actress Saxon Sharbino in 2014. While details are scarce, reports suggest a brief dating period before Paul's rise to significant internet fame. Similarly, Kellie Stewart, a model and internet personality, was rumored to be dating Paul in 2014 for a few months, though neither party publicly confirmed the relationship or its conclusion.
His first highly publicized and tumultuous relationship was with fellow Team 10 member Alissa Violet. Their on-again, off-again dynamic spanned from 2015 to 2017. Alissa was an original member of Paul's social media collective, Team 10, and their interactions were heavily featured in his content. Despite public appearances and merchandise featuring their "Jalissa" ship name, Alissa later stated they were "never officially dated," describing their connection as a "rocky relationship" where Jake wouldn't commit. The relationship ended acrimoniously amidst accusations of infidelity and emotional distress, with Alissa alleging Jake brought other girls into their shared living space. The drama intensified when Alissa was later linked to Jake's brother, Logan Paul, further fueling the public feud between the brothers.
Following the drama with Alissa Violet, Jake Paul was rumored to have briefly dated Tessa Brooks in 2017, another member of Team 10. While their relationship was never officially confirmed by either party, a video of them kissing at Coachella circulated, and their interactions were often highlighted on social media. However, like many of Paul's early relationships, the nature and duration remained somewhat ambiguous to the public.
Later in 2017, Paul entered into a highly publicized relationship with Erika Costell, another Team 10 associate. Their pairing, dubbed "Jerika," was initially presented as a "showmance" for content, with Paul himself admitting in a 2017 New York Times interview that their relationship was "fake." However, as documented in Shane Dawson's The Mind of Jake Paul series, both Paul and Costell later claimed genuine feelings developed. They collaborated on music, including the song "Jerika," and frequently appeared together in vlogs and social media posts. Their relationship was characterized by public displays of affection and a seemingly inseparable bond. However, by November 2018, the couple announced their breakup. Paul described the relationship as becoming "toxic" towards the end, with frequent arguments. Costell remained largely silent on the split, though Paul later discussed the emotional toll it took on him in his "Jake Paul Uncut" series.
In April 2019, Jake Paul began dating internet personality Tana Mongeau, leading to one of his most talked-about and controversial relationships. Their whirlwind romance culminated in a highly publicized "wedding" in Las Vegas in July 2019, which was live-streamed for a pay-per-view audience. The event, however, was later revealed not to be legally binding, as they did not obtain a marriage license and the officiant was not licensed in Nevada. Mongeau herself often referred to their arrangement as a "fake marriage" or a "prank." Despite the public spectacle, their relationship was marked by questions of authenticity and public scrutiny. The couple officially announced their separation in January 2020, with both stating they were taking a break to focus on themselves. Mongeau later expressed feeling "broken" by the relationship, particularly after Paul was seen meeting with ex-girlfriend Erika Costell shortly after their "wedding."
After his split from Tana Mongeau, Jake Paul entered an on-again, off-again relationship with model Julia Rose, which lasted from 2020 to 2022. Their relationship was often volatile and highly public, with Rose frequently appearing in Paul's vlogs and attending his boxing matches. They met on the set of his music video for "These Days" in March 2020. Paul openly discussed their rapid connection, stating, "We fell in love. Everything progressed and we kept on falling in love really fast." Rose, known for her own controversial public stunts, was a constant presence by Paul's side during his burgeoning boxing career. Their relationship was characterized by numerous public breakups and reconciliations, often announced on social media. The final split occurred in early 2022, though the exact reasons were not widely disclosed.
Most recently, Jake Paul has been in a relationship with Dutch Olympic speed skater Jutta Leerdam. The couple confirmed their relationship in April 2023. Leerdam revealed that Paul initially sent her a direct message on Instagram, inviting her to be on his podcast. Despite her initial reservations about his public persona, she found him to be "the complete opposite" of what she expected. Their relationship appears more private and stable compared to Paul's past high-profile showmances, though they still share glimpses of their life together on social media. Paul has publicly praised Leerdam, calling her "the most amazing woman" and "a superwoman," highlighting her achievements as an Olympic athlete and world champion. Leerdam often attends Paul's boxing events, showing support for his career. Their relationship marks a more mature chapter in Paul's romantic history, focusing on mutual support and genuine connection away from the manufactured drama of his earlier years in the spotlight.