A recent social media post by essayist Wesley Yang has ignited further discussion on the complex landscape of youth gender identity, particularly highlighting a perceived resistance among some young individuals to prevailing gender-affirming approaches. Yang’s tweet, stating, > "But a growing number of children aren't complying, and the question is whether the adults who want to break them will succeed, or whether the girls will break the phalanx of powerful adults trying to break them,” underscores a contentious societal debate regarding the role of institutions and medical practices in shaping adolescent identity.
The tweet alludes to a broader conversation surrounding the rapid increase in gender identity diagnoses among adolescents, particularly females, and the subsequent medical pathways often pursued. While gender-affirming care is widely supported by many medical organizations, recent developments in Europe, such as the 2025 German Guidelines for Diagnosis and Treatment of Gender Incongruence and Gender Dysphoria, reveal a more cautious stance. These guidelines, downgraded from "evidence-based" to "consensus-based," acknowledge that a significant number of young people with gender-related concerns may experience temporary "gender non-contentedness" rather than persistent gender incongruence.
The German guidelines, despite their cautious narrative, indicate that the number of youths with temporary transgender identification is "significantly larger" than those with persistent feelings, and that there is "no established way to identify those for whom gender dysphoria will persist long-term." They also note the potential influence of peer groups and social media on self-identification. This nuanced view contrasts with the more affirmative-only models, suggesting a growing recognition of the complexities involved in adolescent gender development.
Adding another layer to this discussion are the increasing narratives of detransition among young people. While studies suggest the overall prevalence of detransition is rare, reasons for reversal often include external pressures such as family disapproval, societal stigma, and difficulty navigating social environments, rather than a change in core gender identity. For instance, a 2021 analysis found that 82.5% of detransitioners cited external factors, including "pressure from a parent" (35.6%) or "pressure from community or societal stigma" (32.5%). This highlights the profound impact of social and familial environments on a young person's gender journey.
Wesley Yang has consistently critiqued what he terms "successor ideology," which he views as an institutionalized form of identity politics that can lead to dogmatic approaches, particularly concerning gender. His commentary suggests that the "phalanx of powerful adults" could refer to the institutional and medical systems that, in his view, may inadvertently pressure young people into medical pathways without sufficient long-term evidence or consideration for evolving identities. The emerging data on detransition and the evolving guidelines in some countries reflect a growing recognition of the need for more nuanced and individualized approaches to youth gender identity.